Miley Cyrus and older beau Justin Gaston, 20, thought they were being oh-so-discreet during a recent church service by texting each other. Not only were the romantic twosome busted for sending messages, but they were treated to a tongue lashing by the Cyrus’ family pastor.

Miley had this to say recently about her boyfriend: “”Our families are like, ‘Whatever happens, happens’. If he’s nothing but a really good friend, that’s awesome. More than anything, he has really helped me move on from a lot of things. He’s a really great Christian guy. He’s gone through stuff, and I’ve gone through stuff, and everyone goes through that.”

I highly doubt that any 20-year-old dude dating a 16-year-old wants to be “just good friends” but time will tell. Good to know they have “stuff” to talk about, though.